In our last blog of 2024 titled Ending The Year With Appreciation, we took a moment to explore and acknowledge all the good, all the positive, all the growth, the learning, the healing, the forward movement and all the connections and relationships that we have been blessed with this past year. Today let’s take a moment to celebrate all that is, right as it is in this very moment.
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Today I invite you to join me in celebration of this new day, of this new year. Of what exactly you might ask? Of this moment, of existence as it is, right now. Yes, it is enough to simply exist. It is enough to be. Everything else is the icing on the cake.
I invite you to the idea and the perspective, that everything is perfect just as it is. It is perfect for you to be right where you are. You being where you are right now is not a mistake, it is not a punishment, and it is not because you haven’t gotten something or the other right yet.
Also, forget about the idea that you are here to be climbing some sort of ladder because you are not. Instead, think of yourself as being here to have experiences, all of which contribute to and cause the expansion of the whole of who you are and the whole of all life.
Of course, it is good to have goals, dreams and intentions. And as you hold onto and work toward these, you might notice that not all of them come to fruition. When this happens, you are then presented with the choice of either blaming yourself or someone else or to trust and understand that there must be something better, more aligned for you than what you initially intended for and dreamed of. I am sure you can think back and recall some events and outcomes which at the time you perceived as undesirable, yet today, in retrospect, recognise how it actually served you and contributed to your growth and expansion.
The moment you are able to shift your perspective in this way is the moment you are able to start benefiting from everything that happens and doesn’t happen. You start to realise that everything is perfect as it is right now and at the same time it will continue to change and evolve, continuously transforming into something new, and with it offering you something new to experience and expand into.
And as long as you do not resist it you start to benefit from everything that is happening and everything that will happen going forward.
So go ahead and celebrate yourself right now, because you exist to be and do just that.
With love.
Ceferino
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